Its not about an emotional talk with the old people. Its more about finding a good solutions for what me may encounter.
They talked based on their experiences. Advised with the pros and cons we might not even think of. At some point, its good to let down those ego and open up a little. Have a little trust on what you are doing.
InsyaAllah, with Allah’s will.. It will get easier.
Salam, Azreena Ishak.